Is Boise Creating Weak and Timid Leaders?
In a recent edition of the Idaho Business Review, there’s a great insert about the Leadership Boise classes over the years. I spoke to a Leadership Boise class last year or so, and it is a great program full of great people, many of whom I know. But there’s a small component missing to this leadership training that I’d like to add, so here you go. Take a look at this photo:
What’s the matter with it? You’ve got nearly the entire front role assuming the fatal “Fig Leaf” pose. The fig leaf pose is of course the never-to-be-assumed pose where you stand with your hands in front of your privates. Professional photographers learn not to pose hands this way. And most students of leadership and public speaking learn that this pose denotes weakness and timidity. There are lots of professional references out there that will support my contention, but here are a few quick web statements about the “fig-leaf” pose:
Fig leaf position: The fig leaf posture by either sex is a closed body position. It blocks the private mid section from view. This posture occurs by placing one or both hands in front of the crotch blocking it from view. The hands are usually clasped together. It shows insecurity and occurs when someone is in a novel environment or around people they don’t know and aren’t familiar with.
DON’T use the fig-leaf pose. By placing your hands to cover the groin region, you’re making yourself look visually smaller. When you place your hands in the fig-leaf pose, your body says, ‘I’m harmless,’ or, ‘I’m afraid.’ Not exactly the way to convey the level of confidence a client wants to see.
From the book, “You Say More Than You Think”
In any situation that’s less formal, a fig-leaf might indicate serious discomfort and anxiety. People use the pose almost instinctively perhaps as a default pose that they consider respectful and businesslike. But many people read this move to mean fear, and they believe it telegraphs weakness.
To sum up, here’s what most of our new leaders are signaling:
- Insecurity
- I’m harmless
- I’m afraid
- Fear
- Weakness
My guess is that isn’t what these folks were going for. So buck up Boise leaders! “F” for all of you doing the fig leaf, “F-” for the gal with her hands in her pockets (this signals that you are a manipulator!!!), Solid “A” to the gentlemen in the front row, right, “A+” to the gal in the center of the photo who had the courage to stand up straight, in the front, look at the camera, and confidently place her hands at her side. Hopefully she orchestrates this photo for the next class.










